Damilola Adegbite Explains Why Men Should Be Allowed to Cry

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Actress Damilola Adegbite has challenged the notion that men should suppress their emotions, saying crying does not make a man less masculine.

The actress stated this in a video shared on her Instagram page, where she reacted to a viral clip of a man who repeatedly insisted he was a man after being asked if he was crying.

In the video, Adegbite questioned why society expects men to hide their feelings because of their gender.
According to her, she does not subscribe to the idea that men should not cry.

“I do not subscribe to the idea that men should not cry,” she said.
The actress argued that crying is a natural human response and should not be seen as a sign of weakness.
“God forbid, crying should make you feel like less of a man,” she added.

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Adegbite explained that men have been conditioned to appear strong and bottle up their vulnerabilities even when going through emotional difficulties.

She said if her own partner broke down in tears, she would comfort him and allow him to express himself without judgment.

She further called for safe spaces where men can openly discuss their feelings without fear of ridicule, warning that constantly suppressing emotions can lead to anxiety, depression and other mental health challenges.

The actress urged men to avoid relationships and environments where they cannot express themselves freely, stressing that emotional vulnerability should not be mistaken for weakness.

Uzor Arukwe Says Marriage Places More Responsibilities on Women

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Nollywood actor Uzor Arukwe has argued that marriage places greater responsibilities on women, insisting that a woman’s worth should not be measured by whether she is married.

The actor shared his views during an appearance on the In My Opinion podcast, in a video clip circulated on Instagram.

According to Arukwe, women bear significant physical and social responsibilities in marriage, including pregnancy, childbirth and adopting their husbands’ surnames.

He explained that these considerations have made him reluctant to strongly advocate for marriage without acknowledging the demands it places on women.

“I’ve never really been an advocate of marriage because I feel like it’s more tasking for the woman. She’s the one that bears the child. She takes your last name. A lot of things happen,” he said.

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Arukwe added that society was gradually recognising that marriage does not determine a woman’s identity, success or personal value.

“So, I feel society is now beginning to catch on to the fact that marriage doesn’t define or make a woman,” he stated.

The actor also reflected on the societal expectations women have historically faced regarding marriage and motherhood.

He recalled how women who remained unmarried at 25 or 30 were frequently questioned, with older generations often comparing their experiences and pointing out that they already had several children at the same age.

However, Arukwe observed that attitudes were changing, with some women now deliberately choosing to remain unmarried or not have children.

He disclosed that he had personally encountered two or three women who did not want children.

His comments have highlighted changing attitudes towards marriage, personal independence and the freedom of women to make decisions about their futures without societal pressure.

Kay Wonder Postpones Invasion Praise Concert Following Toluwanisings’ Death

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Gospel singer Kay Wonder and the organisers of Invasion Praise Concert have announced the postponement of the event’s seventh edition following the death of gospel minister Toluwanisings.

The concert was initially scheduled to take place on Sunday, October 18, 2026, at Eko Hotel & Suites, Victoria Island, Lagos.

Toluwanisings, whose real name was Olayemi Bayonile Bolaji, was among the gospel artistes billed to perform at the annual gathering alongside Titilayo Euba, Minister Dieko, Bola Are, BBO, Lilian Nneji, Psalmos, Shola Sax and Tobi Akuraku.

Announcing the postponement in an Instagram statement titled “A Heartfelt Announcement: Invasion Praise Concert Season 7 Postponed,” Kay Wonder said the decision followed the painful loss of the gospel minister.

The convener explained that the tragedy had deeply affected the organisers and the wider gospel community, prompting them to postpone the event out of respect for the late singer.

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The statement read, “Following the heartbreaking loss of one of the Gospel ministers, Toluwanisings, we have been deeply affected by this painful moment. In honour of his memory and in recognition of the grief currently felt across the Gospel community, we have prayerfully decided to postpone the concert.”

The organisers apologised to attendees and supporters for any inconvenience caused by the decision, adding that a new date would be announced soon.

Kay Wonder also urged members of the public to remember Toluwanisings’ family, loved ones and the entire gospel community in their prayers.

Toluwanisings reportedly died on Wednesday, October 14, after he slumped in Ibadan.

His death has prompted mourning within the gospel music community, with the concert postponement reflecting the impact of the loss on fellow ministers and organisers.

Nkechi Blessing Opens Up on Life, Healing and Why She Chose to Move On

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Nollywood actress Nkechi Blessing Sunday has reflected on the importance of living intentionally, saying life is too short to be consumed by regrets, bitterness and postponed happiness.

The actress shared her thoughts in an Instagram post following the death of gospel singer Olayemi Bayonile Bolaji, popularly known as Toluwanisings, whose passing has sparked mourning across the entertainment industry.

Nkechi Blessing said the experience had reinforced her belief that people should appreciate life, release emotional burdens and make the most of the opportunities available to them.

According to her, disappointments are inevitable, and not every dream will unfold as expected. However, she noted that life also offers opportunities for healing, unexpected blessings and fresh beginnings.

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“I am learning that life is too short to live in regret, carry bitterness, beg for love, or postpone happiness while waiting for everything to be perfect,” she wrote.

The actress added that she had chosen to move forward, not because life had always been easy, but because she deserved the freedom that comes with letting go of painful experiences.

She also expressed her determination to embrace happiness, travel, dress beautifully, celebrate personal achievements and create meaningful memories.

Nkechi Blessing said she no longer wanted to spend her entire life merely surviving when she could also enjoy its beautiful moments.

Her reflection comes amid reports that Toluwanisings died on Wednesday, October 14, after reportedly slumping in Ibadan.

The singer’s death has renewed conversations about life’s unpredictability, with the actress encouraging people to appreciate their present blessings rather than continually waiting for perfect circumstances.

Amanda Oruh Urges Men to Always Seek Consent Before Sex

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Nollywood actress Amanda Oruh has urged men to always obtain a woman’s consent before engaging in sexual activity, stressing that a person’s sexual history does not remove their right to refuse intimacy.

Oruh, known for her role in King of Boys, emphasised that consent must be obtained regardless of how many sexual partners a woman may have had.

“I don’t care if she slept with 5,000 men; if she didn’t consent to the 5,001st man, it is a rape,” the actress said.

She further encouraged men to make consent an essential part of every sexual encounter, stating: “You should always ask a woman for consent – men.”

Beyond the subject of relationships and personal boundaries, Oruh also shared her thoughts on marriage, revealing that self-discovery currently matters more to her than finding a romantic partner.

“My death is more guaranteed than my wedding, so instead of looking for my soulmate, I’m going to look for my soul,” she said.

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The actress has continued to gain international recognition for her contributions to filmmaking. She recently received the World Cinema Dramatic Special Jury Award for Acting Ensemble at the Sundance Film Festival for her performance as Pinky in the feature film Lady.

Born in Lagos to William Iheanyichi Oruh and Joy Uchenna Oruh, Amanda developed an early interest in storytelling and has pursued a career spanning acting, producing and hosting.

Her comments highlight the importance of consent, personal autonomy and self-awareness in relationships.

Laffmattazz with Gbenga Adeyinka Set for 2026 Tour Grand Finale in Lagos

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Laughter Incorporated Ventures has announced plans to hold the grand finale of the 2026 Laffmattazz with Gbenga Adeyinka & Friends tour on Sunday, November 15, 2026, at the Balmoral Convention Centre, Federal Palace Hotel, Victoria Island, Lagos.

Tagged ‘Lagos Gets the Last Laugh,’ the finale will close a tour that has held editions in Ibadan, Akure, Calgary, London, Ontario, Toronto and Abeokuta.

For Gbenga Adeyinka 1st, GCON, the Lagos finale is also a homecoming. The city played a major role in the development of his entertainment career more than 30 years ago, providing the stages and audiences that helped shape his work. The finale, themed “The Next Chapter: A New Season of Laughter,” will bring together comedy, music, culture and fashion. It will also mark the close of the Laffmattazz tour’s 15th anniversary year, alongside more than three decades of Adeyinka’s career in entertainment.

FirstBank takes the role of the lead sponsor and official tour partner of Laffmattazz 2026. Laughter Incorporated Ventures acknowledged the bank’s support for the tour across Nigeria and Canada and its contribution to bringing the Lagos finale to the stage.

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With preparations underway, the organisers are inviting additional sponsors and brand partners to support the event. Opportunities include audience engagement, hospitality, on site activations and campaign visibility before, during and after the finale.

The organisers said the event offers prospective partners an opportunity to connect with audiences through comedy and shared cultural experiences.

After tour stops in Ibadan, Akure, Calgary, London, Ontario, Toronto and Abeokuta, the tour will conclude in Lagos, bringing the 2026 edition to the city where Adeyinka’s entertainment journey began.

Premier Music Publishing, Sony Seal Deal to Take Classic Nigerian Music Global

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Premier Music Publishing has announced an administration agreement with Sony Music Publishing Nigeria, a partnership expected to create new international opportunities for some of Nigeria’s most treasured musical works.

The agreement covers selected vintage recordings and compositions in the Premier Music Publishing catalogue, featuring songs associated with influential Nigerian musicians whose contributions helped shape the country’s music industry.

Among the artistes represented in the catalogue are Cardinal Rex Jim Lawson, Celestine Ukwu, Chief Stephen Osita Osadebe, Gentleman Mike Ejeagha, Dr. Victor Olaiya, Sir Victor Uwaifo, Ras Kimono, The Mandators, Bright Chimezie, Buchi and Celestine Obiakor, among others.

The partnership marks a significant development in Premier Music Publishing’s strategy to expand the commercial value of its catalogue and strengthen the international reach of Nigerian and African music.

Through the agreement, the companies aim to create additional opportunities for the works to reach new audiences and generate value across the global music industry.

Group Chief Executive Officer of Premier Records Limited, Michael Odiong, described the arrangement as a major milestone in the company’s ambition to establish a globally competitive African music publishing business.

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He said joining the Sony Music Publishing network would create new possibilities for the catalogue, its songwriters and the wider recognition of African musical creativity.

Odiong also emphasised Premier’s commitment to protecting and maximising the value of African intellectual property.

According to him, the company’s long-term objective has been to preserve, protect and develop its repertoire while ensuring that its commercial potential benefits rights holders and future generations.

He described the agreement as another important step towards achieving that ambition.

Similarly, A&R and Operations Director of Sony Music Publishing Nigeria, Uzor Daniel, expressed enthusiasm about the collaboration.

Daniel said the partnership would help build on the legacy of the featured catalogues by identifying new opportunities in the international market.

He highlighted the potential for samples, interpolations and creative collaborations to introduce the historic compositions to contemporary audiences.

The agreement comes amid growing international interest in Nigerian music and Africa’s broader creative industry.

By combining Premier’s historic catalogue with Sony Music Publishing’s publishing expertise and international network, the partnership is positioned to create fresh opportunities for the commercial exploitation and preservation of classic Nigerian music.

It also reinforces the importance of music publishing in ensuring that iconic compositions continue to generate value long after their original release.

Why I Remain Single at 52, Nigerian Rapper Ruggedman Explains

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Veteran Nigerian rapper, Michael Ugochukwu Stephens, popularly known as Ruggedman, has opened up on why he is still unmarried at 52. NigerianCulture Magazine

The rapper said his demanding music career and the collapse of a five-year relationship contributed to his single status.

Ruggedman, who spoke during a recent radio interview, said he had always wanted to get married and have children but was determined not to have a child outside wedlock.

According to the rapper, he entered the Nigerian music industry at a time when artists had to rely heavily on their hustle, a journey he said consumed much of his time.

“I am one of those who got into the industry back in the day where all we had was our hustle and we faced it and before you know it, time was gone,” he said. Ruggedman noted that while some of his contemporaries found partners who were willing to journey with them through their careers, his experience was different.
“2baba was lucky to have found partners who were ready to walk that road with him, I wasn’t that lucky,” he said.
The rapper disclosed that he was once in a five-year relationship which he believed would eventually lead to marriage, but the relationship ended after an unspecified incident. “I had a five year relationship that I thought would lead to marriage but something happened and it crashed,” he said.

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Ruggedman also revealed that he is currently not in a relationship.

“Currently, I’m not in any relationship,” he said.
Addressing his desire to have children, the rapper said he had made a personal decision not to have a child outside marriage. “The only thing I vowed is that I will never have a child out of wedlock,” he said.

Despite being 52, Ruggedman said he does not consider marriage to be beyond his reach, stressing that age should not determine when a person finds a life partner. “No, I don’t think it’s too late. It’s never too late. As long as you are alive, it’s never too late to get married,” he said.

The rapper also dismissed any speculation about his sexuality when asked directly during the interview, saying: “I am very straight.”

Ojay Wright Recalls Discovering His Mother Bukky Wright’s Popularity

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Ojay Wright, son of veteran Nollywood actress and filmmaker Bukky Wright, has recounted how a birthday celebration in Lagos made him realise the remarkable level of his mother’s popularity.

Ojay shared the experience during a recent mother-and-son interview with Pulse Nigeria, explaining that he had underestimated his mother’s celebrity status until an unexpected incident at a popular Lagos nightclub changed his perception.

According to him, he had returned to Nigeria from the United States for a holiday and decided to celebrate his birthday at Quilox nightclub. What was supposed to be a personal celebration, however, turned into an eye-opening experience when guests and other club patrons began anticipating his mother’s arrival.

Ojay said he was confused by the unusual excitement and the way the club’s management appeared to be controlling the situation.

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He recalled that the manager effectively acted like a bouncer as the venue became crowded with people eager to catch a glimpse of Bukky Wright.

“I came back home from the US for holiday and I celebrated my birthday at Quilox. I didn’t know that Omotara was that big,” he said.

He explained that people kept telling him not to worry when he questioned what was happening, revealing that the excitement was connected to his mother.

According to Ojay, many people believed the veteran actress was coming specifically to celebrate her son’s birthday, making her anticipated appearance a major attraction.

He added that Bukky Wright eventually arrived and stayed for approximately 30 minutes, during which the excitement surrounding her presence became clear.

Reflecting on the incident, Ojay admitted that he had always viewed Bukky primarily as his mother rather than as a celebrity with a massive public following.

“I was surprised, I thought you were just mom not knowing you’re big,” he said.

The revelation highlights Bukky Wright’s enduring influence in Nollywood and the recognition she continues to enjoy among fans.

Deola Art Alade Says Vision Does Not Require Consensus

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The Chief Executive Officer of Livespot360, Deola Art Alade, has urged creatives to pursue their vision without seeking validation.

The wife of Dare Art Alade asserted this while speaking on the challenges confronting Africa’s creative industry.
“Extraordinary creatives producing globally relevant work without the infrastructure, capital, knowledge or commercial pathways to turn that creativity into sustainable value,” she said.

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Continuing, Art Alade, who is the woman behind Entertainment Week Africa (EWA) said “I stopped waiting for the platform to exist and built it. Vision does not need consensus. It needs commitment and consistency.”