Uche Ogbodo Says Men Always Make Excuses for Their Bad Behaviour

Uche Ogbodo Blasts Men Who Make Excuses for Infidelity, Urges Women to Know Their Worth

Nollywood actress Uche Ogbodo has criticised men who make excuses for infidelity and irresponsible behaviour, urging couples to embrace fairness, mutual respect and accountability in their marriages.

The actress made the remarks in an interview with Saturday Beats, where she described herself as an advocate of equal responsibility in marriage and healthy relationships.

Ogbodo argued that men should not expect their partners to remain faithful while engaging in extramarital affairs themselves. According to her, sexual desires should not be used as justification for unfaithfulness because individuals have the ability to control their actions.

“I am an advocate for 50-50 in marriage. If you want me to be faithful to you, stay faithful to me,” she said.

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Questioning why some men justify their behaviour, she added, “Why do men always make excuses for their failure? They always make excuses for their stupid behaviours.”

The actress also advised women experiencing unhappiness in their relationships to recognise their worth, practise self-love and establish clear boundaries.

She maintained that women should understand their needs and identify the behaviours they cannot tolerate in a relationship rather than remain in situations that undermine their happiness.

“I am not an advocate for suffering and smiling. If it is not working, you don’t have to die there,” she stated.

Ogbodo further warned that abuse within relationships extends beyond physical violence, noting that emotional and psychological mistreatment can damage a person’s confidence and self-esteem.

She explained that making a woman feel inferior, worthless or less desirable than another partner could constitute psychological abuse.

However, the actress acknowledged that some men understand the responsibilities of marriage and maintain discipline in their relationships.

Her comments highlight the importance of fidelity, emotional well-being, mutual accountability and recognising unhealthy relationship patterns.